We’re living in unprecedented times. Day-by-day life looks completely different now than it did six months ago, especially schooling. I’m sure lots of other parents, guardians, and educators can say the same. It can be hard to hold on to optimism in these times.
Choosing how my children’s education would look for the next short while was not easy. I had to ask myself questions such as, “should I send my kids back to school, or should I keep them home?” Eventually, I decided to enroll my kids in school.
But before I jump into that, I want to acknowledge all the parents and guardians who didn't have the privilege of choice in this matter. My heart goes out to the single parents trying to juggle kids, school, and work during this time, lower-income families who are taking this day by day, and anyone else who, because of their circumstance, didn't get to choose how their children’s education would unfold.
These past few months have been far from ideal. But, there are always surprises.
How My Children Taught Me Optimism
Enrolling my children in school meant they would be required to wear a mask, and I was surprised to find out how okay my youngest son was with it. He was even excited about it, so much that he would wear the mask in the van!
Here's a photo of Lucas before his first day back at school.
I mentioned my son’s eagerness to wear a mask to my co-worker, who was also surprised to find out how much joy her daughter finds in wearing a dinosaur-themed mask. Who knew masks could be so fun?
After hearing from many other parents who noticed the same thing, I began to realize that my children were showing me how we’re meant to handle change: with optimism.
But they didn’t only show me that I needed to change my perspective. They showed me how.
How to Practise Optimism During Difficult Times
Find joy in the little things
Whether it be working wi-fi, a warm cup of tea, or even a dinosaur mask, try to find a small piece of joy in every day. Then you'll find yourself noticing the bits of optimism in every day.
Be open-minded
Remind yourself that change can bring a lot of opportunity. Maybe this time has forced you to engage with your creative side as you come up with fun at-home activities for your children, or maybe you’re spending a lot more time at home with your family.
Be patient
Remember that you can make it through this. Every storm must pass.
Why We Need to Do the Hard Work of Changing Our Perspective
I think that now, more than ever, it’s incredibly important that we practice optimism in our everyday lives as parents. I’m sure that, if I notice how my children are adapting, they also notice how I'm reacting to it.
Let’s show our children that we can find joy even in the middle of change. Let’s remind our children that there’s always a reason to smile every day. Finally, let’s show our kids what it means to be optimistic.
I want to extend a huge thank you to all of the administrators and educators who are pouring endless hours of effort into making our children’s schools a place of positive learning. Thank you for all that you do.