Read This If You Don’t Feel Qualified to Be Writing a Children’s Book 

To the author who feels unqualified to write a book—before you read any further—I’d like to tell you that you are indeed qualified. I’d also like to touch on how common this feeling is among writers (in fact, 70% reported feeling this way too). 

So why do so many of us have this nagging voice in our heads telling us we’re not good enough, educated enough, or experienced enough to be here? This common feeling, especially among writers, can be paralyzing. But remember, it’s just a feeling—not a fact. You have the skills and knowledge to succeed in writing a children's book. Before I share some practical tips on how to quiet that inner critic, let me tell you about my own experience with it.

My Personal Experience with Imposter Syndrome - “Who Do I Think I Am?”

With my first children’s book in 2013, I Can Believe in Myself, I set a goal to empower 100,000 children. A bit audacious, right? Wait until you hear this. 

Before setting this goal, I had no idea how I was going to do this. 

I had zero experience in writing. 

At the time, I only had my personal network of family and friends so how in the world was I going to reach—nonetheless empower—that many children?

I graduated with a degree in business, of all things. 

I never had plans of becoming an author.

Naturally, you can see why the nagging voice in my head started to taunt me, asking, “Who do you think you are?”

I wrestled with this doubt for a while.

But then, I remembered this powerful quote: “Be scared and do it anyway.” 

This goal certainly scared me.

But, I knew I had this goal placed on my heart for a reason. I was extremely passionate about it and suddenly, my determination to accomplish my goal outweighed my fear and doubt of failing. 

There was absolutely no way that I was going to let a little voice inside my head tell me “I can’t.”

And so I worked to overcome that obstacle. Not only did I publish my book, but I also hit my goal, making an impact on over 100,000 children’s lives. 

And that was just the beginning: 

• My book became the first in a series of books, all of which became #1 sellers. 
• My mentor, Jack Canfield, agreed to co-author a book with me. 
• I landed a four-book deal with the traditional publisher, HCI Books. 
• I founded my own hybrid publishing company so I could guide others in the process of publishing a children’s book.
• I launched two successful programs that help other aspiring authors to write, publish, and market a best-selling children’s book. 
• And so much more!

None of this would have happened if I had listened to my inner critic. That's exactly what drives me to encourage other aspiring children's authors to push past their doubts and pursue their dreams.

You have no idea what hangs in the balance. 

You are not unqualified. You are called. 

Ask yourself these questions…

1. Am I passionate about becoming a children’s author? 
2. Do I have a goal I hope to accomplish as a children's author? 
3. What would happen if I tried, despite my doubt?
4. What would happen if once I tried, I succeeded? 
5. What would be the ripple effect of my success?  

Every author starts somewhere, and having doubt is a normal part of the process. But it’s what you choose to do with that doubt that makes all the difference. 

It’s time to put those doubts to rest and ignite your creativity by fueling it with passion! 

Just because doubt is normal doesn’t mean it gets to have the final say. Here are some strategies to help you move past it: 

Talk to Others:

• Talk to others about the way you are feeling. 
• Find a writing community that understands the challenges you face. 
• Share your work with those you trust to offer valuable feedback. 
• Consider finding a professional mentor who can provide guidance along the way. 

Focus on Your Strengths:

• Write down all the things that set your writing apart.  
• Question whether or not your thoughts are rational. Do these thoughts actually make sense? 
• Think about what your passion is and use that to write. 

Take Baby Steps:

• Don’t focus on doing things perfectly, but be proud of yourself for taking action. 
• Break down your writing process into smaller, manageable steps. 
• Practice writing regularly to build confidence. 

Celebrate Differences:

• Remember that everyone’s writing journey is different. 
• Limit how much time you spend on social media to avoid content that makes you feel inadequate. 
• Be interested in what others have to share instead of thinking of how you compare to them.  

Refuse To Let Fear Hold You Back:

• When doubt creeps in, question how true it is. 
• Be kind to yourself, just as you would be to a friend.
• Remember why you are doing this. Connect with your reasons for writing.
• Refuse to give up. 

Every great writer began with a blank page, and every accomplished author faced moments of self-doubt. Those feelings of unqualification are not the reflection of your true potential, but a natural part of the creative process. 

Believe in your ability to make a difference with your words, and let that belief guide you through the challenging moments. It's not about how you start, but how you persist. Just by acknowledging your dream, you’ve taken the first step. Now, take the next step—no matter how small it may feel. 

You are capable, and there are many people waiting to read your story. 

Sincerely, 

A Fellow Believer in YOU

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